Be Happy Anyway

On January 28, 2019, in Sunshine Cathedral, by Rev.Dr. Robert

Be Happy Anyway Rev. Dr. Durrell Watkins Let us dwell together in peace; and let us not be instruments of our own or others’ oppression. And now, may God’s word be spoken, may only God’s word be heard. Amen. In today’s gospel lesson, Jesus gives the beatitudes, that is, he promises joy to people whose […]

Be Happy Anyway
Rev. Dr. Durrell Watkins

Let us dwell together in peace; and let us not be instruments of our own or others’ oppression. And now, may God’s word be spoken, may only God’s word be heard. Amen.

In today’s gospel lesson, Jesus gives the beatitudes, that is, he promises joy to people whose lives are pretty challenged. When he says “blessed are you” he’s saying, “there is joy for you…things may be difficult, but you can be happy anyway.”

Jesus seems to be singing that great old hymn of faith:
Look for the silver lining, whenever clouds appear in the blue.
Remember somewhere, the sun is shining, so the right thing to do is make it shine for you.
A heart filled with joy and gladness will always banish sorrow and strife.
So look for the silver lining, and always try to find the sunny side of life.

The beatitudes are 8 steps to finding silver linings and the sunny side of life.

1. Blessed are the poor in spirit (poor in pride).
In my 20s I heard a sermon on 1 Peter 2.9-10: “You are a…peculiar people, that you should show forth the praises of the One who called you out into the Light…Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God…”

The preacher was using the text as a way of building up her predominantly LGBTQ audience. She wanted us to know that just as we were, we were God’s people. We were chosen by God, blessed by God, and if no one else would claim us, God would and indeed, God already had.

She was telling people who were taught to be ashamed of who they were, people who were poor in pride (lacking a healthy self image), that they were entitled to joy (basically that they were God’s miracle and not God’s mistake).

She was telling us what Jesus told us today in the gospel: “Blessed are the poor in spirit, the poor in pride, for Heaven is theirs.”

2. Blessed are those who mourn.
They will be comforted.

We’ve all lost loved ones, pets, jobs, maybe homes, maybe mobility or health or relationships with family members or friends…we’ve experienced loss and we know the pain that can cause. Hopefully, we have also discovered that grief is a healing process.
The ache of loss gives way, at least slightly, at least occasionally, to the joyful memories.
Tears, if not replaced, are at least accompanied by smiles.
Comfort comes. Perhaps not quickly, but it does come. As the psalmist declared, “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.”
Blessed are the mourners…joy will return to them one day.

3. Blessed are the meek (those who do not seek retaliation).
Vengeance is not as satisfying as we might hope.
Of course we can stand up for our rights and resist oppression and speak truth to power but revenge is not justice and will not bring peace of mind.

When Jesus says turn the other cheek and when he warns that those who live by the sword perish by the sword, he’s reminding us that retaliation is simply a continuation of the violence or the cruelty we felt victimized by. Joy and vengeance are not compatible.

Blessed, happy, are those who rise above petty retaliation. They will inherit the world. In other words, when enough of us plant the seeds of non-violence, a non-violent world is what we will inherit.

4. Blessed are the justice workers.
Righteousness in biblical parlance means justice. Fairness, inclusion, equal protection, equal opportunity, righting wrongs, affirming the dignity of all people…this is godly justice and it brings joy. Hatred and prejudice suspicion and misery. Joyful, are those who care about justice for all.

5. Blessed are the Compassionate,
who do unto others as they would have others do unto them, who can experience empathy, who can imagine being in the other person’s shoes. To be compassionate is to gently blow on the embers of joy. From experience I can promise you that compassion feels better than condemnation, that empathy feels better than harsh judgment. Joyous are the compassionate.

6. Blessed are the sincere.
Pure in heart. People of integrity.
They say what they mean and mean what they say, they offer what they offer genuinely without expecting something in return, they aren’t trying to manipulate people or rig systems or cheat others…Blessed are the sincere. They are operating honestly, with good character, and will more fully experience God, the Good.

7. Blessed are the workers for peace.
Peaceful resolution, peaceful intention, peaceful practice were all so important to the early church that there was a vigorous debate about whether soldiers could be Christian at all.

Non-violent resistance is difficult. Peaceful engagement is not easy, but it is the way of Jesus, and according to Jesus, it is the way of joy.
Of all the beatitudes, peacemaking is the one activity that Jesus associates with acting as if we were the children of God.

8. Blessed are the pursued and persecuted.
Marriage equality is a matter of justice. It’s about fairness, it makes marriage an option for all committed couples without privileging heterosexual orientation.

Many politicians and preachers and corporations fought against marriage equality. But we who worked on the side of righteousness, on the side of justice, on the side of fairness, human dignity – our hope was constantly renewed, and as was our joy. Happy are those who are working for justice. But working against those who seek justice has never brought happiness to anyone.

There seems to always be a targeted group: Muslims, immigrants and refugees, transgender folk, the island of Puerto Rico, women demanding sovereignty over their own bodies. The targeting and dehumanizing and demonizing of any group is unjust and immoral and ungodly. But take joy those who are persecuted for seeking justice – it will one day come, and until then, you have the blessing of knowing that you are on the side of righteousness.

Jesus will go on to tell his audience that they are the salt of the earth and the light of the world. He then encourages them to both believe it and live it.

What Jesus is telling his disciples in the sermon on the mount, and what he’s telling us today, is that even when we can’t control the world around us, we can have some control over our interior world. We can choose hope. We can go to peace instead of to pieces. We can be happy.

Poor in pride – be happy anyway.
Mourning a loss – know that you can be happy again.
Considering revenge? Don’t do it. You’ll be happier for not retaliating.
Working for justice? You’re doing God’s work, be happy about it.
Have you shown compassion lately? Rejoice. That’s God’s love in action.
Are you honest and sincere? Be happy, you are expressing divine qualities.
Are you working for peace? Be happy, because you are living as a child of God.
Are you persecuted for seeking justice? Be happy, because justice is on the way.

Look for the silver lining. You’re bound to find one, and once you do, focus on it, knowing that where attention goes, energy flows. Looking for and finding silver linings will always lead to happiness.

A heart filled with joy and gladness will always banish sorrow and strife. So look for the silver lining, and always try to find the sunny side of life.

And this is the good news! Amen.

Dear God,
Today I look for silver linings.
And I rejoice as I find them.
I choose happiness.
Alleluia!
Amen.

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